Teenage is a special phase in your life enjoy growing up while sex can wait. No sex no pregnancy. Life is more than sex and teenage is the time when you are sowing the seeds for a greater future.
If you are a teenager, pregnancy is definitely not for you. Your body should be prepared for pregnancy and remember bearing a child for 10 months and then delivering the same is not an easy job. There are a lot of responsibilities that fall on you once you deliver a baby and you need maturity, physical strength, emotional strength and financial capacity to bring up a baby.
Teenage to adulthood – growth takes place in stages
There is time for everything just as fruits don’t ripen in one day. There are stages to it and so is your body. It is always best to do things after thinking rather than being impulsive. Youth is the period of haste. You have a tremendous amount of energy to do things and there seems to be no barriers at all. So go slow. Wait till you reach adulthood to shoulder responsibilities.
Parenting – no easy job!
As a teenager your body is not ready for pregnancy and it takes emotional maturity to handle sexual relationship. Your partner may not be sensitive to your weaknesses because he has nothing to lose at the end. Even if your partner is willing to rear your baby but then what are you gaining out of it? If he refuses, you will be left with the child either to hand it over for adoption or rear it up in poverty. Bringing up a child single-handedly is no easy job.
Teenage Pregnancy – a burden
Besides it makes no sense in adding burden to your life. So maintaining abstinence is always a healthier choice till you are ready for shouldering any responsibility like bearing and upbringing children. If you become pregnant accidentally, you need to talk to a doctor. Don’t hesitate. Seek professional advice because it is your body and you need to be safe.
Virginity – a state of body
Moreover there is nothing to be obsessed about being a virgin. You are not an object to be explored and a highly prized object for being a virgin. Virginity is a phase and remaining virgin for a longer time means you can achieve other things in life like higher education or getting a foothold onto a competitive career.
Teenage – the learning phase
You lose the chance of picking up higher skills if you are a school drop-out for getting pregnant. Yes if your own libido is high, even then postponing sex till you are quite independent to handle things in life is the best option. Choosing abstinence during teenage is the best thing to do because you have the rest of your life to enjoy sex.
Safe sex is essential
You can experience teenage romance without practicing sexual romance. Believe it or not most teenagers don’t have sexual experiences. Don’t be carried away by media representation of sexuality. It is better to abstain from sex than facing the dangers of unsafe sex. Prepare yourself mentally for sex. Find out about safe sex. Avoid mistakes so that you don’t have the opportunity to regret later.
Loyalty matters – stick to one partner
It is always good to have sexual experiences with one partner. Sex is not a matter of body only. Emotions matter. So don’t jump into having sex because you badly want it and repent it for the rest of your life. Practice safe sex at have sex when you are ready for it. With abstinence, no barriers or pills are necessary because you are not having sex.
Abstinence – a matter of choice
There are lot of people who abstain from sex and it is not necessarily they are virgin. It is their choice to abstain from sex. If you want sex have it when you and your partner are ready for it. People with lusts may push you on to sex saying that you are not enjoying life and that you are wasting your youth. Resist such pressure and protect yourself from unsafe sex.
All the best.
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