From adolescence to womanhood the body matures. For girls we can feel the breast developing. We feel it so embarrassing in the beginning that we stoop forward in order to hide the visibly growing breasts. Sisters and teachers in school would tell us to stand straight and that is how none of us developed a hunch I guess.
With the beauty pageants things are different now. Body is something one should flaunt. So teenage girls are more anxious if the breasts are not big enough. They hear from the elder girls and read magazines emphasizing the significance of big boobs.
Some girls try and push some kerchiefs to look busty. There are also types of bra which can make small breast look larger. Those who can afford go for breasts implant. Nevertheless breasts are a significant part of a woman’s body and media fully exploits it. Though size of breasts hardly affects the health of young girls still girls are obsessed with the size of the breasts.
Media lay so much of emphases on looks and appearance that girls start aspiring to look like models. Small breasts make them feel they are unattractive. Sagging breasts are laughed at though it is natural for heavier breasts to sag.
A teenager does not understand that there is nothing wrong if their breasts are not big enough. Young boys start appreciating big breasts because the media presents big breasts as attractive ones. Or that some top actor or prominent figure had attraction for women with big breasts.
Men also misbehave in the guise of appreciating big breasts so be careful and don’t let mischievous men play with your body in the name of love and appreciation. You are a teenager and still growing and thereby not a matured woman.
Breast size depends on one’s genetic make-up, or health. Yes small breasts or oversized breasts could be sign of hormonal imbalance but other than that if sex appeal is attached to the breasts of a particular size, shape and color, there is certainly something wrong with our thinking and such thinking can never be healthy.
What teenagers don’t know is that there is a gap between reality and fantasy and they need to learn quickly the difference between the reality and fantasy lest they are led astray by media misrepresentation and lose the real meaning of life and existence.
As long as the breasts don’t pain or show any abnormality be confident with whatever type of breasts you have. The real you is in your mind and your healthy body. Eat healthy and feel healthy.
All the best
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